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	<description>It&#039;s not about the money!</description>
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		<title>By: theproblemwithmoney</title>
		<link>http://www.theproblemwithmoney.com/2010/01/20/its-so-depressing/comment-page-1/#comment-127</link>
		<dc:creator>theproblemwithmoney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 13:52:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are so right - it is a day for celebration.  Thanks for pointing that out.  It just goes to show it&#039;s all about where we focus our attention.
Jane</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are so right &#8211; it is a day for celebration.  Thanks for pointing that out.  It just goes to show it&#8217;s all about where we focus our attention.<br />
Jane</p>
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		<title>By: theproblemwithmoney</title>
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		<dc:creator>theproblemwithmoney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 13:50:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow - a lot of wisdom in what you say!  Birthdays during the holidays are always difficult - I have a sister&#039;s birthday 12/23 and another 1/2 - it always feels like they get lost!  Planning ahead now before we&#039;re in the thick of things sounds like a great idea.
Jane</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow &#8211; a lot of wisdom in what you say!  Birthdays during the holidays are always difficult &#8211; I have a sister&#8217;s birthday 12/23 and another 1/2 &#8211; it always feels like they get lost!  Planning ahead now before we&#8217;re in the thick of things sounds like a great idea.<br />
Jane</p>
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		<title>By: Elizabeth</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elizabeth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 04:17:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jane,  I enjoy reading your blogs very much.  This one struck me because my birthday is January 12th and my daughter just turned 5 today.  January is a tough month.  We are all &quot;caked, cookied &amp; brownied&quot; out and the thought of another celebration is, well, depressing.  I like your notion of New Years Solutions because every year I have had a resolution to make my birthday more fun, which would indicate that my birthday was a problem, something that needed to be fixed.  What a silly thought!  Birthdays are not problems and certainly can&#039;t be fixed!  So, this year I have made a New Year&#039;s Solution to decide before next Christmas on something fun to do and actually figure out the cost ahead of time and set a little money aside (or maybe purchase a gift card so I have to use it there!) to do whatever it is when my birthday rolls around again.  I somehow instictively knew to do this with my daughter&#039;s birthday, but hadn&#039;t considered my own.  Children are a great place to find solutions because they don&#039;t see the problem first like we have become used to doing.  They still see the what ifs and possibilities.  Sometimes, when I feel blue I go outside with her and jump in the snow and make snow angels.  That helps too!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jane,  I enjoy reading your blogs very much.  This one struck me because my birthday is January 12th and my daughter just turned 5 today.  January is a tough month.  We are all &#8220;caked, cookied &amp; brownied&#8221; out and the thought of another celebration is, well, depressing.  I like your notion of New Years Solutions because every year I have had a resolution to make my birthday more fun, which would indicate that my birthday was a problem, something that needed to be fixed.  What a silly thought!  Birthdays are not problems and certainly can&#8217;t be fixed!  So, this year I have made a New Year&#8217;s Solution to decide before next Christmas on something fun to do and actually figure out the cost ahead of time and set a little money aside (or maybe purchase a gift card so I have to use it there!) to do whatever it is when my birthday rolls around again.  I somehow instictively knew to do this with my daughter&#8217;s birthday, but hadn&#8217;t considered my own.  Children are a great place to find solutions because they don&#8217;t see the problem first like we have become used to doing.  They still see the what ifs and possibilities.  Sometimes, when I feel blue I go outside with her and jump in the snow and make snow angels.  That helps too!</p>
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		<title>By: Ann</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 03:38:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This Monday was a holiday in memory of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.  Anyone who went to the Merrill Auditorium, on Sunday at 6, for the Music and Gospel Concert would not be feeling blue! If you attended the 29th Annual Breakfast, in honor of Dr. King, on Monday, at the Holiday Inn by the Bay, you might still be feeling uplifted today. The NAACP used both events to raise money for Haiti this year.
Maybe next year we can all celebrate on &quot;Blue Monday&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This Monday was a holiday in memory of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.  Anyone who went to the Merrill Auditorium, on Sunday at 6, for the Music and Gospel Concert would not be feeling blue! If you attended the 29th Annual Breakfast, in honor of Dr. King, on Monday, at the Holiday Inn by the Bay, you might still be feeling uplifted today. The NAACP used both events to raise money for Haiti this year.<br />
Maybe next year we can all celebrate on &#8220;Blue Monday&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: theproblemwithmoney</title>
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		<dc:creator>theproblemwithmoney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 00:41:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My mother used the same term!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My mother used the same term!</p>
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		<title>By: theproblemwithmoney</title>
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		<dc:creator>theproblemwithmoney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 00:41:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That 50 cents is comparable to $30 today - still a generous gift budget!
Jane</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That 50 cents is comparable to $30 today &#8211; still a generous gift budget!<br />
Jane</p>
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		<title>By: acyopie</title>
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		<dc:creator>acyopie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:10:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jane, You took me back to another world: my mother referred to blue days years and years ago.

She wasn&#039;t talking about your &quot;blue days&quot;. For her it was having a down day...a day in which she felt &quot;blue&quot;; I remember them. I even found an article in her bible years later which she had cut out referring to feeling &quot;blue&quot; and what to do for them.

A different connotation; I prefer yours and will start this month.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jane, You took me back to another world: my mother referred to blue days years and years ago.</p>
<p>She wasn&#8217;t talking about your &#8220;blue days&#8221;. For her it was having a down day&#8230;a day in which she felt &#8220;blue&#8221;; I remember them. I even found an article in her bible years later which she had cut out referring to feeling &#8220;blue&#8221; and what to do for them.</p>
<p>A different connotation; I prefer yours and will start this month.</p>
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		<title>By: Gloria Klein</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gloria Klein</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 22:10:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good blog.  It reminded me of when I was a child in the 1940&#039;s putting 50 cents a week in the Christmas Club and then having $25.00 to spend for Christmas.  It seemed like a lot back then.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good blog.  It reminded me of when I was a child in the 1940&#8217;s putting 50 cents a week in the Christmas Club and then having $25.00 to spend for Christmas.  It seemed like a lot back then.</p>
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		<title>By: theproblemwithmoney</title>
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		<dc:creator>theproblemwithmoney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 19:36:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jen;
You are so right - parents definitely pass on behaviors to their children - some good and sometimes not good.  Glad to hear the Christmas Club is alive and well!
Jane</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jen;<br />
You are so right &#8211; parents definitely pass on behaviors to their children &#8211; some good and sometimes not good.  Glad to hear the Christmas Club is alive and well!<br />
Jane</p>
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		<title>By: Jen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 19:33:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jane,

It&#039;s funny you refer to the &quot;old&quot; Christmas Clubs. I started using that method of saving for holiday gifts when I got my first &quot;real&quot; job, and, at almost 40, I&#039;m still using a Christmas Club! And, you&#039;re right -- come November (or so) -- it almost feels like a gift in itself! I do the same with a &quot;rainy day&quot; account. It&#039;s amazing the way we can trick ourselves into saving for things.

When I was a child, my Dad always taught me to save for items I wanted (within reason, of course!), or else I wouldn&#039;t be able to buy them. I don&#039;t see that so much these days. I was talking with a young person recently -- and said, &quot;if you save your money, you could buy yourself something nice like a new bike.&quot; His response, &quot;I already have a bike, why would I need to save to buy one?&quot; I then reflected back on childhood conversations with my Dad, and realized that one&#039;s parents have to understand how to save in order for them to instill it in their children.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jane,</p>
<p>It&#8217;s funny you refer to the &#8220;old&#8221; Christmas Clubs. I started using that method of saving for holiday gifts when I got my first &#8220;real&#8221; job, and, at almost 40, I&#8217;m still using a Christmas Club! And, you&#8217;re right &#8212; come November (or so) &#8212; it almost feels like a gift in itself! I do the same with a &#8220;rainy day&#8221; account. It&#8217;s amazing the way we can trick ourselves into saving for things.</p>
<p>When I was a child, my Dad always taught me to save for items I wanted (within reason, of course!), or else I wouldn&#8217;t be able to buy them. I don&#8217;t see that so much these days. I was talking with a young person recently &#8212; and said, &#8220;if you save your money, you could buy yourself something nice like a new bike.&#8221; His response, &#8220;I already have a bike, why would I need to save to buy one?&#8221; I then reflected back on childhood conversations with my Dad, and realized that one&#8217;s parents have to understand how to save in order for them to instill it in their children.</p>
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